"However, don't wait because you think the guy will lose respect or interest. Wait because of how it will affect you. It's really not about him. Guys who are interested in you will still call and pursue you after they've seen you naked.".Just try to focus on what you want and, of course, be safe. Also on HuffPost).I had an experience where I had been dating a guy for a few months before the first time, then we did it and it was bad. And weird. Easily the worst sex of my life."The first date is not enough time to talk about any past sexual history that may have resulted in diseases, diseases that I might be able to catch." "I would never have sex on a first date with someone.Of course, there's no "right" answer here - our feeling is essentially, "you do you!" - but we were curious what our readers thought about sex on the first date. So, we asked them. Here's how 14 of them felt: 1.You go on a date. It's fun. You hook upand then he loses interest. Why did this happen? Who knows: Maybe he's too picky, maybe he doesn't feel a spark, maybe he's commitmentphobic, or maybe he's just a game-playing douche.YOLO, if you want to ratchet up the delayed gratification, if his texts include. ROFL, if he enjoyed Fifty Shades of Grey, if you're a virgin, if you have an STD. (Obvious? I'd hope so.Let's look at Exhibit B. A few years ago, Phil from Chicago (then 36 and an exec at a chocolate company) visited some friends in Toronto. He hit it off with a woman named Rica, who decided to seduce him.If youre a 28-year-old and youre a 7, you can message girls from 18 to 28 ranging in looks from 8 and below. The farther away from your age and rating the less probability you will have of getting a response from the woman.I don't say this lightly. I just cowrote a dating book about it. As part of our research, my cowriter (relationship expert Andrea Syrtash) and I heard hundreds of men say the same thing again and again: Men are unfazed by first-date booty.Which means you have the most options for hooking up with DTF girls. You can find every type of woman on POF except for SWPL artists and hipsters who you can find on. Ok Cupid instead.Did Teddy think that she wasn't girlfriend material? The question strikes him as ridiculous. "After a first date hookup, all I think about is whether I like her, whether she's smart and funny, and if I want to see her again." He did.