You may be technically correct that hes not of your social station, but thats of no concern to the man youve just insulted to his face. Literally, the ONLY thing he can do when you tell him that you have nothing in common (without getting.Women tend to adhere more to their checklists, which usually call for a man who is just like you, but better. And without your flaws. Hes right about that. This is one of the big blind spots that women have in dating.New Haven, 1978, no. 44, ill. Edmund P. Pillsbury "The Oil Studies of Frederico Barocci.". Apollo Magazine. vol. 108, New York, Sept. 1978, pp. 171-72, pl. 4. Graham Smith "Frederico Barocci." Burlington Magazine, vol. 120, 1978.Allow me to explain. You painted a black and white world, Fiona. It wasnt that he was less educated than you. Its that he was a laundry operator. Its not that a man is older than you, its that hes a generation older than you.Yes, they are. To your original question, no one is saying (apart from the jilted men) that you deserve to be alone. But I would be remiss if I didnt pull out the nugget of wisdom from the flawed logic of the laundry operator.32, no. 21, ill. Andrea Emiliani. Federico Barocci. 1985, pp. 223, 446, no. 459, ill. Veronika Birke, Janine Kertész Die italienischen Zeichnungen der Albertina. Generalverzeichnis Band I: inv. 1-1200. Vienna, Cologne and Weimar, 1992, p.A Dealer's Record, Agnew's 1967-81. Thomas Agnew Sons, Ltd., Agnew's, London, 1981, p. 163, ill. Jacob Bean, Lawrence Turi 15th and 16th Century Italian Drawings in the Metropolitan Museum of Art. The Metropolitan Museum of Art, New York, 1982, p.Men do what they want. They dont do what you want. My answer to you is largely the same as my answer to her. Men do what they want. They dont do what you want.203-4, 211 (note 34 no. 10.6, ill).The reason that I call this a blind spot for women is because women tend to adhere more to their checklists, which usually call for a man who is just like you, but better. And without your flaws.I am just wondering how many other men think like this? For me, it seems plain common sense that, while professional women with masters degrees may be compatible with men in less successful professions, the guy that left school with no qualifications to work in.160 (as England, Private Collection ill. Edmund P. Pillsbury "Barocci at Bologna and Florence.". Master Drawings. vol. 14, no. 1, Master Drawings, New York, 1976, pp. 56, 63. John Shearman "Barocci at Bologna and Florence." in Burlington Magazine.Dear Evan, I was at a speed dating event last night for the second time. Just like the first time, it was full of smart, pretty, successful women in their thirties and forties and men of similar ages with manual labor jobs (and a few.It is not the first time that I have come across the attitude that career women deserve to be alone if they dont want to date men without any education, or men a generation older, or the obese.